Grief. Healing.

Thank you Alana for choosing me to read for you.

I was very lucky to have Alana Mars choose to have a reading with me in March 2026.  Alana told me that it was her first-ever reading. 

Sadly, she had lost her fiancé, and she wanted to have confirmation that his spirit was still with her.  Alana chose to document her journey through grief on her Instagram page. This very raw and confronting emotional look at one person’s immense grief at the loss of her person has struck a chord with many other people, who have reached out to Alana to give her love, support and to share their own stories. It is very powerful.

Why did I start out saying I was lucky?  Well, Alana – even though she had never had a reading before - told her loved one in spirit the date, time and address where the reading was taking place.  On the day she wore items of Andres’ clothing, as well as bringing along personal items and photos of her fiancé.  Because she did all of this, her beautiful man was determined not to miss this opportunity to connect and send love to her.   

She also had to wait, due to my wait times, 6 months from the day he passed over.  Ensuring that there was a higher possibility that he would have already completed his Book of Life and understood energy and how to use it to connect with Alana (and me) more easily.  It was a beautiful reading with so much evidence and beautiful loving messages being given. To sit in such love was very overwhelming.

I always recommend doing all these things when you go to a mediumship reading.  If you want to connect with a person (or animal) in spirit, please invite them to the reading.  Please bring along an item of theirs that will still have remnants of their energy attached, and a photo is always very helpful.    Whenever I do an animal communication reading or an email/distance reading for a loved one in spirit, I do request a photo.  I can always try without it, but I find that it is easier for me to connect with these items.

The beautiful Alana left the reading crying, but she told me, happy tears.  She had her confirmation with the information passed on during the reading.  We didn’t have to bring out any photos or personal items, as Andre was very quick to connect with me in the reading.    As Alana left, she thanked me for the reading and shared with me that I might get bookings from her friends and that she has a little following on Instagram. 

Wow, did she tell me a whopper!  My booking system and social media blew up!

I was blessed to have others turn to me for readings and learning more about me. I reached out to a few of the people who were contacting me via my email and social media to ask where they found me.

This is how I found Alana on Instagram and read her story through her many posts and reels. This woman is so strong.

She is such an Earth Angel in the way she has been connecting with people and helping them as she, too, learns how to deal with loss in this world.

She is kind and loving, making sure that she answers everyone who messages her. She allows others to tell their own story of loss. So beautiful. So inspirational.

If you would like to reach out to Alana and follow her on Instagram, click here

Alana Mars’ “little following” was well over 10,000 people, and as a result of her sharing a tiny bit of her reading, my Instagram jumped by 1200 people in just 2 days!  Wow! 

So now I, too, have been inspired by Alana. I will learn Instagram and how to put up worthy posts purely to help others to heal.  

Alana was also sent a lot of questions that her followers asked her about the reading.  So, over the next couple of months, I will be posting more on Facebook and Instagram to talk about these questions.   I feel so blessed to have been given this opportunity to help others to understand how to connect with their spiritual team, angels and loved ones. 

I will also be offering up advice on how to understand signs, your different Clairs that help you connect with spirit, plus so much more.   I hope you will like and follow me on either of my Facebook or Instagram accounts so that you too can understand more about connecting with spirit, how to feel and see signs, plus so much more. 

This is my life purpose. 

To help people understand that we do not die, energy does not die, but changes in shape, in form.  We can still have our loved ones with us, we just have to relearn how to communicate with them to bring us peace, happiness and love back to us in this lifetime. 

Thank you again Alana. Your grief is personal, but your strength is a gift to the world.